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How does Tea for Women work?+
Search for someone by their Instagram handle or name. If they have reviews, you'll see flag summaries (green for safe, yellow for caution, red for danger) and anonymous written reviews from other women. You can also submit your own review after signing in.
Is it anonymous?+
Yes, completely. Your identity is never shown on reviews. Other users only see the flag color, the review text, and how long ago it was posted. No name, no photo, no profile link.
What do the flag colors mean?+
Green flag means safe and respectful. Yellow flag means proceed with caution — mixed signals or minor concerns. Red flag means danger — serious warning signs or harmful behavior. AI suggests a flag based on your review text, but you always choose the final color.
Can he see who reviewed him?+
No. Reviews are completely anonymous. The person being reviewed can see their profile page and the reviews, but there is no way to identify who wrote any review.
Is it free?+
Yes, Tea for Women is completely free. Searching, reading reviews, and posting reviews are all free with no limits.